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5 Whispers in the Ear of my Postpartum Self

“I would live in a cabin in the woods with the right man, for the opportunity to have children and raise a family.”   I said this when I was 33, after spending 15 years launching a career and travelling the globe. My first child was born when I was 36.   My second and last birth slipped in before my 40 th birthday.   I had hoped being a ‘mature Mom’ would eliminate hurdles.     With my career already established and decades of learning packed into my personal toolbox – I had this covered.    After exceeding expectations throughout my first 30 years I could certainly balance a demanding career and parenting, along with our existing social and family life, without a hiccup.   If I read everything about effective parenting, absorbed all of the requested and uninvited advice, I would earn my supermom cape, right? W   R   O   N   G   !   !   Or more accurately, I wisely realized I no longer wanted that cape.   At 47 I look back with greater insight.     If only I could whisp