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Love Letter to my Daughter’s Bully

Hurt people   - hurt people.   I feel very sorry for my daughter’s Bully.   Are you surprised to hear that?     I am not an Educator.     I am not a Psychologist.   I am not a bullying expert.   I am an empathetic human being, and a dedicated Mom.   I was bullied as a child – weren’t we all at one time or another?   I grew up in a tough neighbourhood.   I remember watching the clock, in fear of the ‘end-of-day-bell’ because the pending threat of “after school you are dead” was looming over me.   I had a great family with love and support, and yet many weeks went by where I felt isolated and in fear for my safety.   Progress is a wonderful thing. The school systems today have ‘zero tolerance’ for bullying and violence.   That doesn’t mean it has stopped, just that my kids won’t hear what I did from the school; “walk home another way; kids will be kids; just turn the other cheek”.   Teenaged suicide is on the rise – and a large motivation is the pain and humiliatio